At Bunnyjuice, we’re committed to couples. A real issue for some is how to keep the magic of the honeymoon (or the third date!) alive through the years. Our lives can feel downright un-sexy a good deal of the time and none of us are getting any younger.
What to do? How do we discover a thrilling new tingle with a comfy old partner? Here are a few tips:
Set a date. And then stick to it. Regular date nights keep things interesting and give you something to look forward to. Dates are also a powerful signal that each of you values time with the other, which has a major payoff in the bedroom.
Do it…differently. Even sex can get boring if it’s the same every time. Change-up your game. Add a new technique, locale, or lingerie. Try a new position or one you haven’t used in a while.. Use pillows to help change the position or make a position more comfortable. Add a new lube (slippery is always better) or toy. Surprise your partner in the shower before work or with a nice massage at the end of a long day.
Play. And I don’t just mean role playing (which can be very exciting). Be playful. Bring the whipping cream to bed or play a sexy game. Add in a fantasy scenario. Be spontaneous and creative and think of ways to treat your partner and yourself to a novel experience.
Remember, your life is only as boring as you make it. The happiest and most satisfied couples are those who maintain a physically satisfying relationship.